you're falling apart. you're falling away from me. and its breaking my heart. but bigger than that you're falling from God. and this makes me cry and so upset. all i want is for you too depend on me and know that im here for you. and that i love you and never ever will give up on you. please; i just need you to know that.
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i'm not falling away from God, actually. you need to watch what you say. me being upset, and me telling you that a comment is making my struggles harder and me being angry with the general attitude towards those struggles by people as a whole, is valid. i'll depend on GOD, not on a person, and me being far from a friend is not the same as me being far from God. i'm anything but far.
i understand what youre trying to do here but do not make this into something dramatic.
Matthew I know for a fact this blog post is not all about you.
yeah, me and britnee talked.
but part of it is, and it's written as if it's all to one person, so it's a logical conclusion. in fact, when you know that someone reads your blog, and will know part of the entry is about them, it's kind of irresponsible to their feelings to adapt a writing style that blends multiple people into one form of address.
it is my blog! it is my feelings. it its not 'irresponsible'.. that doesn't even make sense...
it is how i feeel, and my thought and worries for other people. i don't matter who its too. because if you think its about you, you should talk to me and not assume. the person that most of this is about; i have talked to already. and matthew i told you the part that is about you.
it is not meant to be a big deal, i just want both of you.. everyone to know there loved. and that i love my friends, cause so often we forget to tell them.
I'm not saying its a big deal but yes, its your blog and your words but you need to be careful with how you use it because your words can surely kill, or they can build and repair and I've seen them do the latter quite often and its great. But if its written as though its to one person and it isn't, but there's a high chance someone will be confused by that and hurt, then you gotta take some responsibility for that, because even scriptirally, the bible says we gotta be careful with every single word.
okay. these are just honest words. and some are harsh but they're real. and im real and sometimes people need to hear the honest truth. it is also in a sense encouragment. im teliing you(and others) that we're falling away from eachother but no matter what i love you and im here for you. an to not give up. encouragment is good, but honesty is so nessacary.
I don't disagree, but then you need to think about what its going to be like to see it public and how it can be confused, especially if you're not clear on who you're speaking to.
i don't care how other people read it and what they think it means. it is my blog. and people can read it and interprite it how they want or choose too. and maybe this can lead to a conversation or an opening of a heart. people reading it and interpriting it is part if having a blog and having people that read it. we can all read things and read it commpletly different ways.
if it was directed to one soul person, there would be a name or tottaly clear and they would know. but sometimes i write, with someone in mind but in hopes that someone will read it and maybe hear something they need to hear.
You don't care if people read it and are hurt by it? There is so much wrong with that, you have no idea. If you're hiding behind freedom of speech, I won't argue that right, but I would direct you to scripture that speaks very clearly on how to and how not to use your words, including verses in which there is no denying that words can cause incredible damage if we don't take great care with them and aren't very intent on being edifying (which these words are not) or uplifting in accountability (and public communication forum isn't the place to rebuke someone).
i didn't say that matthew. not the first part: "You don't care if people read it and are hurt by it?`` i said if other people read it, if you think it is about you, than you`ll talk to me about it and what it means. re-read this blog, it is saying nothing wrong, it is saying that i love you and care about you and need you to know that. i know words can hurt people, i know that better than most people. and im sorry if they did hurt you.. but this shouldn`t have AT ALL! the part that could hae been offence.. was not about you.(and the person who it was about, i spoke with already) and the last part that is about more than one person, is encouragment.
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